The seismic wave field simulation method for optimizing finite difference operator in frequency-space domain is discussed. The high-order finite difference operator of two-way wave in frequency-space domain is deduced and the nine-point finite-difference coefficient is calculated. Strategy for saving the inner-memory is proposed. The strategy greatly decreases the requirement of the inner memory for the huge sparse matrixes before and after LU decomposition. Seismic modeling with production scale can be performed based on this work. In addition, the perfectly matched layer absorbing boundary condition depending on frequency is deduced and achieves good absorbing effect. Numerical tests on a depression model and Marmousi model demonstrate that the method is feasible and effective. The computation accuracy can guaranteed with less resource cost.